Three Generations. One Promise: Never Again.
A grandfather remembers a time when Jews had no one to defend them. Now, he, his son, and his grandchild have all served in the IDF, carrying that promise of “never again.”
On International Holocaust Remembrance Day, we remember the six million Jews murdered in the Holocaust and honor the survivors who carried their stories forward. Those stories are not only testimonies of loss, but show resilience and the meaning of “never again.”
We sat with Sergeant R and his grandfather, Arne, a Holocaust survivor. His story begins in Nazi-occupied Denmark, where Jewish families lived quietly until October 1943, when German forces moved to deport the country’s Jews.
While millions across Europe were trapped with nowhere to flee, the Danish people chose a different path. With the help of brave Danes and the protection offered by Sweden, nearly the entire Jewish community of Denmark (about 8,000 people) had been saved.
Survival, Arne explains, is something you never forget. He recalls how in Denmark, “nobody wore the yellow star. The Danish king said that if my Jews are going to wear a star, I will also wear it, but as a sign of honor.”
After the war, Arne built a life and eventually immigrated to Israel at the age of 41. Within six months, he was drafted into the army. No one asked about his past, his losses, or the fact that he was a Holocaust survivor. He served like everyone else.
For Arne, the meaning of survival is deeply tied to responsibility. As antisemitism rises across the world once again, he insists: “nobody should forget about what happened. It was such a terrible thing. The numbers are unimaginable.” Remembrance is about understanding what happens when Jews are left unprotected.
“Never again,” is not only memory; it is defense. “I was in the army, my son was in the army, and now my grandson is in the army.” He explains, “three generations in the army. That means never again.” Three generations standing guard so that Jews will never again be defenseless.
The October 7 massacre made this truth painfully real. Family members were directly affected, forced to leave their homes. The shock and fear echoed memories no survivor ever wishes to revisit.
When asked why the Jewish people need a state and the ability to defend themselves, his answer is firm. “Here in Israel, we respect everybody. That's why if we want to live a free life, [as Jews], it has to be here. There's no other place where you can feel sure, especially these days.”
On this International Holocaust Remembrance Day, Arne's story reminds us why remembering matters. It is how we honor those who were lost, listen to those who survived, and ensure that “never again” is not just a promise, but a reality.